that's what being straight men is all about...

Notice that these men have no qualms about showing that they desire another man in the men's only spaces. But the same men show absolute disinterest or even downright hostility, once they're outside the men's spaces, and into the formal or heterosexual spaces.

And this is the curse of men... They have to leave their natural manhood in order to live in this society... This is what their oppression is primarily about...

Men can be themselves only in Men-only spaces

Scene from another boys hostel in India. Students hostels are amongst the last bastions of men's spaces, in a world which is almost totally heterosexualised, where men, even in the West get a chance to be with other men without the presence of women.

Just look at how affectionate these regular guys (what the west calls straight) are and how happy being with each other. In men's spaces they give a lot of expression to their sexual need for other men, without acknowledging this desire, but as soon as they come out of it, they wear their 'heterosexual' masks that claims they've no sexual interest in men, whatsoever.

That's why, when the forces of heterosexualisation break men's spaces and force these men out of them, the straight men are rendered helpless to claim or save their spaces. Unless they are empowered to say that they don't need women -- at least not in all their spaces -- they will never be able to save their spaces that they so badly need to live life as per their nature.

More 'masti' from South India

Masti between men is prevalent everywhere... it's what remains after men are socio-psychologically stopped from forming any meaningful sexual-romantic bonds with other men, which is an integral part of man's nature.

Indian men are even more affectionate towards men

This is because, in India men's spaces are still strong, and the forces of heterosexualisation have not yet engineered enough hostility towards affection and sexuality between men. Look at how much fun these guys are having with the guy they've just stripped.

Also, notice that stripping someone is not an Indian tradition. But Indian guys have just now become aware of this western tradition and have been quick to take to it -- since they are always on the look-out for excuses to indulge in sexual play with other men -- since in heterosexualised/ semi-heterosexualised societies men cannot acknowledge their sexual desire for other men without losing their manhood (which in the West has taken the form of "Straight" identity).

endless masti between Western 'Heterosexual' men...

Sexual desire between men is accepted as an integral part of manhood in all societies where men's spaces are intact. In India, they even have a name for this sexual play between men. It's called Masti. And Western 'heterosexual' men do it all the time too.

Exposing the Conspiracy of Western Pseudo Social Scientists

The Western Pseudo-experts and sociologists often seek to write off the near universal male eroticism found in non-Western countries as because "these poor guys are deprived of girls". But here we have evidence from the West, where girls are availabe aplenty, and where, if the media and popular opinion is to be believed, masculine gendered males or 'straight'/ 'heterosexual' men have such extreme disliking for anything sexual with men, that they can't see two men kissing onscreen, and that the very idea disgusts them and wants them to puke"...

Well, that's what the forces of heterosexualisaton through media and other powerful institutions would like us to believe. But, here is the real truth... this is what goes on between them, whenever they get the opportunity to be together, without women in their spaces.